Thursday, April 28, 2011

Happy 'Being Single' Quotes

Being single may not always be a bad thing. Break-ups hurt us all, but at some level, you might even be relieved for getting away from a manipulative or an abusive relationship. So I guess it is better to be single than to be with someone you don't even like! But if you lack social skills, then you need to know more about 'being single' quotes. So here are some being single quotes for all! These quotes on being single will truly empathize with the sad and laugh with the joyous, and get the optimism flowing.


Happy 'Being Single' Quotes

"You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship to the self. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never lose."


"You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere."


"I must learn to love the fool in me, the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries."


"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. You are the guy who'll decide where to go."






"Sometimes you have to stand alone to prove that you can still stand."


"Being single isn’t bad. What is bad is giving up hope on finding that someone special."


"Being single entitles you to not ask someone's opinion before you do something to mess up your own room, your credit report or even your life."


"When you're single, your pockets will jingle."


"About age 30 most women think about having children, most men think about dating them."


"Girls are like cell phones, they like to be held and talked to, but press the wrong button and you're disconnected. Guys are like buses. If you miss that one, another will be along soon."


"Being single is getting over the illusion that there is somebody out there to complete you and taking charge of your own life."


"If you're sad and lonely, go on, look for the one and only."


"Life is full of attachments, so being single is a state of inadvertent denial."


Being Single Quotes for Men

"I'm dating a woman now who, evidently, is unaware of it."


"Being single is pretty good. It's a nice sense of irresponsibility."


"Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they just need to run free till they find someone just as wild to run with them."





"I’m too shy to express my sexual needs except over the phone to people I don’t know."


"A man needs a woman…. well, a man needs a woman."


"There are a number of mechanical devices which increase sexual arousal, particularly in women. Chief among these is the Mercedes-Benz 500SL."


"Ah, yes, Divorce, from the Latin word meaning to rip out a man’s genitals through his wallet."

"Instead of getting married again, I’m going to find a woman I don’t like and just give her a house."


Being Single Quotes for Women

"I think, therefore I'm single."

"I don't need a man to rectify my existence. The most profound relationship we'll ever have is the one with ourselves."

"Don’t cry for a man who’s left you, the next one may fall for your smile."

"It takes half the amount of time you dated someone to get over them."


"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle."

"My knight in shining armor turned out to be a loser in aluminum foil."


"Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you're pretty sexy and you're taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with."

by
NATASHA ANGELS HEART
http://www.facebook.com/#!/natasha.angelheart

Thursday, April 14, 2011

SELF INTRODUCTION USING PSYCHOSEXUAL DEVELOPMENT(THE ORAL, ANAL,PHALLIC, LATENT & GENITAL..

SELF INTRODUCTION USING PSYCHOSEXUAL DEVELOPMENT
Goretti
My name is goretti(Natasha) a Kenyan in nature born and raised in African land of peace and unity full of beautiful sites and natural environmental nature that attracts many foreigners. Am from a family of 8 members and that is 5 brothers mum, dad and me.



During the oral stage, my primary source of interaction occurred through the mouth, I began tasting and sucking and also developed sense of trust and comfort through this oral stimulation. I was so cute and chubby though.
I used to go after anything that could even slightly resemble a nipple. My mum nicknamed me “the nipple perve. If she has a gem or something on her shirt i immediately go after it and start sucking. She used to stop me over and over but i always come back. That i also figured out that she wears a belly ring from sitting on her lap and i will literally try sucking it through her shirt! I also used to suck on buttons. The worst of all is that one day my mum got out of the shower and i tried to attack her chest. Haha for real I was a nipple fiend!
This really stressed my mum and she used to ask her friends this filthy quiz that~ “How do I stop this?” she is getting stronger and stronger and more persistent!
since I was her first child and that she never had an experience of babysitting.
Around this stage of Anal, my mum started training me on how to go to the toilet, which brought about the child's fascination in the erogenous zone of the anus. The anal stage coincides with the start of my ability to control my anal sphincter, and therefore my ability to give or withhold gifts at will.
At this stage my mum did a lot of work by teaching me how to control my bodily needs which led to a sense of accomplishment and independence, competent, productive and creative girl.
During the phallic stage, I started gratifying physical curiosity by undressing and exploring my friends and their genitals, the center of the phallic stage, in course of which i learned the physical differences between “male” and “female”, and the gender differences between “boy” and “girl”, experiences which alter the psychologic dynamics of me and my parent’s relationship.




At this period of time my mum told me that, I entered baby school and become more concerned and curious with peer to peer relationships, hobbies, talents and other hoopy hoopy interests that made my mum so worried about me.
In the genital stage, as a child my mum told me that my energy once again focused on my genitals, and my interest turns to heterosexual relationships. The less energy I had left invested in unresolved psychosexual developments, the greater my capacity was to be developed in normal relationships with the opposite sex the more stubborn I was growing to. But, however, i remained fixated, particularly on the phallic stage and my development was probably going to be troubled as i struggle with further repression and defenses.





I hope that in my future life I will be more psycho physically, mentally etc though I don’t know exactly what it will be like.

My psychosexual development speech/essay

Psychology
By Goretti





The oral stage
Definition:
The oral stage is the first stage of Freud's stages of psychosexual development, lasting from birth to 18 months.
According to Freud, the mouth is the primary erogenous zone through which pleasure is derived. The major conflict issue during this stage is the weaning process, during which the child is forced to become less dependent upon caretakers. A fixation at this stage can result in problems with dependency or aggression.
When I was in my Oral stage my mum told me that I used to go after anything that could even slightly resemble a nipple. She nicknamed me “the nipple perve. If she has a gem or something on her shirt i immediately go after it and start sucking. She used to stop me over and over but i always come back. That i also figured out that she wears a belly ring from sitting on her lap and i will literally try sucking it through her shirt! I also used to suck on buttons. The worst of all is that one day my mum got out of the shower and i tried to attack her chest. Haha for real I was a nipple fiend!
This really stressed my mum and she used to ask her friends this filthy quiz that~ “How do I stop this?” she is getting stronger and stronger and more persistent!
since I was her first child and that she never had an experience of babysitting.





The Anal stage
Definition:
The anal stage is the second stage in Sigmund Freud’s theory of psychosexual development, lasting from age 18 months to three years.
According to Freud, the anus is the primary erogenous zone and pleasure is derived from controlling bladder and bowl movement. The major conflict issue during this stage is toilet training. A fixation at this stage can result in a personality that is too rigid or one that is too disordered.
Around this age, my mum started training me on how to go to the toilet, which brought about the child's fascination in the erogenous zone of the anus. The anal stage coincides with the start of my ability to control my anal sphincter, and therefore my ability to give or withhold gifts at will.
At this stage my mum did a lot of work by teaching me how to control my bodily needs which led to a sense of accomplishment and independence, competent ,productive and creative girl.
The phallic stage
Definition:
The phallic stage is the third stage of Freud’s stages of psychosexual development, lasting from age three years to six years.
According to Freud, the genitals are the primary erogenous zone and pleasure is derived from genital stimulation. The primary conflict at this stage is a desire to possess the opposite-sex parent. Completion of this stage results in identifying with the same-sex parent.

At this stage I started gratifying physical curiosity by undressing and exploring my friends and their genitals, the center of the phallic stage, in course of which i learned the physical differences between “male” and “female”, and the gender differences between “boy” and “girl”, experiences which alter the psychologic dynamics of the parent and child relationship.





The latent period
During the latent period, the libido interests are suppressed. The development of the ego and superego contribute to this period of calm. The stage begins around the time that children enter into school and become more concerned with peer relationships, hobbies, and other interests.
The latent period is a time of exploration in which the sexual energy is still present, but it is directed into other areas such as intellectual pursuits and social interactions. This stage is important in the development of social and communication skills and self-confidence.
At this period of time my mum told me that, I entered baby school and become more concerned and curious with peer to peer relationships, hobbies, talents and other hoopy hoopy interests that made my mum so worried about me.
The genital stage
Definition:
The genital stage is the fifth and final stage of Freud’s stages of psychosexual development that begins during puberty. During this stage, the individual develops a strong interest in the opposite sex. If the other psychosexual stages have been successfully completed, the individual will develop into a well-balanced, warm, and caring adult.
In the genital stage, as a child my mum told me that my energy once again focused on my genitals, and my interest turns to heterosexual relationships. The less energy I had left invested in unresolved psychosexual developments, the greater my capacity was to be developed in normal relationships with the opposite sex the more stubborn I was growing to. But, however, i remained fixated, particularly on the phallic stage and my development was probably going to be troubled as i struggle with further repression and defenses.